No, I am not going to be making an argument here for you lifting anything with your mind. Until someone proves to us that lifting anything (let alone an x-wing (let alone has an actual x-wing to lift)) with their mind is possible, we are working within our realm of human possibility here.
I have heard “I can’t” from a lot of Jedi, and every time I do I want to beat them with a gimer stick.
(Seriously…I am just going to move to a swamp, put on an antic disposition like Yoda and be done with it.)
First off, if you say you can’t, then you can’t. You have already failed because you refuse to try.
Second off, maybe you are right.
(Interrobang for the win!!!!!!)
(There is a new term/punctuation mark for most of you.)
(Learn something new every day.)
So, you say you can’t learn a foreign language. Or you say you will never be able to lift a certain weight. Or you say that you can’t run a marathon. Or maybe it is something else completely. Maybe a diet goal, or a savings goal…anything. You might be right. You may be incapable of that thing, but that does not mean you are incapable of improving your ability.
If you look at the grand end goal from the beginning, of course it seems impossible. A foreign language, weight lifting, marathons…those are HUGE goals. In order to make any sort of progress, you have to break those goals down.
Instead of saying you want to learn a foreign language, start by saying I want to do x many DuoLingo lessons of a language per week, or I want to take a class in that language, or I want to learn how to count to ten in a different language, or buy a textbook in a language and commit to learning one chapter at a time. You may never become fluent in a language, but you may learn just enough to help translate for someone or communicate with someone who only speaks that language on a basic level.
Instead of saying you want to lift some massive amount of weight. Find out what you can lift now. Start doing reps 3+ times a week of what you can lift until that becomes easy. Add a few pounds and repeat. You may never reach that massive weight, but you still made yourself stronger than when you began.
Instead of saying you want to run a marathon, start by saying you want to run a 5k (3.1 miles and usually the shortest race distance) in 45 minutes or less (approximate minimum time for a race I usually do), or break it down even further and say you want to do a mile in 15 minutes or less. Once you can do the mile, do the 5k, once you can do the 5k, do an 8k, then a 10k. You may never run a marathon, but you can still run more than most people ever attempt.
With each of these small goals, once you achieve it, you set a new small goal. Then another. Then another. And you keep working towards small goals until AND BEYOND, achieving the most you can possibly achieve (because generally, if you do not continue to practice a skill or ability, you lose it).
I give you one of my favorite quotes:
I have seen this quote get a bad rap…even saw it on a list of quotes that need to stop being used, but it means so much to me. Shoot for a goal, no matter how impossible it may seem, because even if you really can’t achieve that goal, you can still make progress, still improve.
I learned this as a little girl. For two years I tried to learn how to do a areal (no handed) cartwheel. Two years I failed. But every time I stepped up to the mat I repeated over and over “I think I can” (yes, like the Little Engine…like I said, I was a kid.) My attitude and my mantra was known to my acrobatic classmates, many of them were inspired by it, they would use it for themselves, they even took to repeating it with me when I when I would attempt it each time as a form of encouragement. It was amazing how powerful such a small thing had become. Finally one day I did. A month later I could also do an areal walkover. No matter how impossible it ever seemed, I never stopped trying. Never stopped working to be better.
Unless you are talking about plans you cannot commit to, or something like that, never say you can’t. Because when you do, what you are really saying is “I won’t.”